{"id":330,"date":"2016-12-03T12:47:15","date_gmt":"2016-12-03T16:47:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mypellau.com\/?p=330"},"modified":"2016-12-03T12:49:25","modified_gmt":"2016-12-03T16:49:25","slug":"being-disabled-and-having-sex-is-not-taboo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mypellau.com\/portal\/being-disabled-and-having-sex-is-not-taboo\/","title":{"rendered":"Being Disabled and Having Sex Is Not Taboo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-339 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/green-badger-284886.hostingersite.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/15540695269_775f5b63a5_k-300x203.jpg?resize=300%2C203&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"15540695269_775f5b63a5_k\" width=\"300\" height=\"203\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mypellau.com\/portal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/15540695269_775f5b63a5_k.jpg?resize=300%2C203&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mypellau.com\/portal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/15540695269_775f5b63a5_k.jpg?resize=600%2C405&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mypellau.com\/portal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/15540695269_775f5b63a5_k.jpg?resize=768%2C519&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mypellau.com\/portal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/15540695269_775f5b63a5_k.jpg?resize=1024%2C692&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mypellau.com\/portal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/15540695269_775f5b63a5_k.jpg?w=2048&amp;ssl=1 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/> In the Caribbean, there has been a lot of skepticism when it comes to disabled persons. Some still think that having a disability should affect your sexiness, or worse , your aptness for having sex with someone. It is considered wrong and \u00a0people who engage in this act are often stared at with pity or horror.<\/p>\n<p>Very often disabled persons are met these questions, \u201cCan you have sex?\u201d, \u201cDo you have sex?\u201d and \u201cHow do you have sex?\u201d, but sexual experiences with a disability has its benefits and can put a positive spin on a relationship. Why?\u00a0It forces a couple to talk, it causes persons to become in tune with their bodies and not only rely on penetration for pleasure (more foreplay). You and your partner get to redefine sexual norms. For example, altering their ideology of what &#8220;sexually appealing&#8221; is. Couples can develop stimulation through words, thoughts, and touches. This forces persons to move away from all the scenarios that they think are sexy, and \u00a0create that sexual experience within that moment, no matter how awkward or different it is.<img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-338 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/green-badger-284886.hostingersite.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/3711073454_6d165d824b_b-300x199.jpg?resize=300%2C199&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"3711073454_6d165d824b_b\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mypellau.com\/portal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/3711073454_6d165d824b_b.jpg?resize=300%2C199&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mypellau.com\/portal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/3711073454_6d165d824b_b.jpg?resize=600%2C398&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mypellau.com\/portal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/3711073454_6d165d824b_b.jpg?resize=768%2C509&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mypellau.com\/portal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/3711073454_6d165d824b_b.jpg?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<div id=\"dfp-ad--inline2\" class=\"js-ad-slot ad-slot ad-slot--dfp ad-slot--inline ad-slot--inline2 ad-slot--rendered\" data-link-name=\"ad slot inline2\" data-test-id=\"ad-slot-inline2\" data-name=\"inline2\" data-mobile=\"1,1|300,250|fluid\" data-google-query-id=\"CNmX1f7K1NACFUQUhwodMHMO1g\">\n<div class=\"ad-slot__label\" data-test-id=\"ad-slot-label\">\n<p>Lastly, sex education for disabled teenagers and adults is needed urgently. Schools must jump on board as well as parents, in order to prepare their children for life ahead. In retrospect, the more sexually active disabled people there are in popular culture, the more the negative perceptions of disabled people will change.<\/p>\n<p>Photos Courtesy:<\/p>\n<p>Wheelchair\u00a91nelly\/Flickr<\/p>\n<p>P\u00e1ja &amp; Dave\u00a9Honza Soukup\/Flickr<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text\">\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In the Caribbean, there has been a lot of skepticism when it comes to disabled persons. Some still think that having a disability should affect your sexiness, or worse , your aptness for having sex with someone. It is considered wrong and \u00a0people who engage in this act are often stared at with pity or&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":118,"featured_media":339,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"_bst_post_transparent":"","_bst_post_title":"","_bst_post_layout":"","_bst_post_sidebar_id":"","_bst_post_content_style":"","_bst_post_vertical_padding":"","_bst_post_feature":"","_bst_post_feature_position":"","_bst_post_header":false,"_bst_post_footer":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[8,30],"tags":[36,35],"class_list":["post-330","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sex-and-relationships","category-social-issues","tag-disabled","tag-sex"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mypellau.com\/portal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/15540695269_775f5b63a5_k.jpg?fit=2048%2C1384&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":293,"url":"https:\/\/mypellau.com\/portal\/sex-robots-to-be-among-us-in-2017\/","url_meta":{"origin":330,"position":0},"title":"Sex Robots To Be Among Us In 2017 [Video]","author":"Dexter Michael Tittil","date":"November 24, 2016","format":false,"excerpt":"Relationships are hard. 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