10 Amazing Things You Did Not Know About Condoms

10 Amazing Things You Did Not Know About Condoms

Culture, Sex and Relationships

5059655322_2d516a72f9_bLifesavers, timewasters, and sensual enhancers. This item has been around us for a very long time, and have you ever wondered how far condoms have come? (yes, you can giggle at the last part). Well, here are 10 Amazing Things for you to ponder about condoms.

10. They were originally meant to battle syphilis, not prevent pregnancies.

9. The oldest condom ever seen used was in Sweden and it was made out of pig intestines. And guess what, it was reusable.

8. In 1928 you had to get a prescription to buy a condom, and in order to get a prescription, you had to be having sex with prostitutes.

7. The first condom was discovered in a Cave in France. The country was known as the place for Syphilis.

6. Different countries used different materials, for example, the Japanese at one time used tortoise shell as the material for a condom.

5. The cost of condoms was high. It would cost some as much as their salaries of a few months to purchase the item.9197405250_87b17f4802_k

4. They replaced weasel testicles. Yes, weasel testicles and an amputated feet were used as contraceptives in the medieval times. We don’t know how effective they were but that was the belief.

3.  They have other uses aside from sex. Soldiers use them to protect their rifles from water damage.

2. In India, they were used for paving roads. The condoms were mixed with concrete and asphalt, in order to make the road smoother and prevent cracks.

1. In ancient times women in Asia drank mercury in order to prevent pregnancy. The result was either death or becoming sterile.

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Ways For Men To Last Longer In Bed

Ways For Men To Last Longer In Bed

Sex and Relationships

What will life be like without our sexual experiences? The rhythmic passion that pulsates during intercourse sometimes does not last long enough for you and your partner. But what can you do about it? Cry? Eat those aphrodisiac foods that will build your libido? Or you can try these really effective techniques before you have sex next.

Kegels

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Some research has suggested that by strengthening the pelvic region, it will treat erectile dysfunction, ejaculation control, and prevent premature ejaculation. It is said that it might even increase the intensity of your orgasms. Kegels are done by doing the same action similar to what you’d do when holding your pee. Make it into an exercise, say 3 sets of 10 of those squeezes 5 times a day.

 

 

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Breathing

464262091_22cd0578ff_bBreathing into your belly instead of your chest, during intercourse can be a big help. No quick shallow breaths. It will just cause your body to become stressed with your nervous system getting activated along with the flexing of your muscles, causing the fight or flight instinct to come out (well you know….. ejaculate). So very deep and slow breaths into your belly, even relaxation techniques before sex can be a big help.

 

 

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Orgasm Control

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This is a fun activity where one partner would stimulate the other, by gradually bringing them to that point where an orgasm is actually building, and as it’s about to hit, your partner will reduce the level of stimulation. This is called erotic sexual denial. You can make things more interesting by tying up your partner and teasing them. Another possibility is for one partner to help produce multiple orgasms in the other, enabling sex to last longer but a lot more messy.

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Have A Very Merry Kinky Christmas?

Have A Very Merry Kinky Christmas?

Culture, Entertainment, Sex and Relationships

You are in a committed relationship. No kids, just your partner and you. What do you do for Christmas? Christmas is not just for kids and it can be made to be a very enjoyable holiday, with a whole lot of Ho, ho, ho’s and a special candy cane going down a chimney. So let’s give you a hand to have a Very Merry Kinky Christmas.

Dress up like a sexy Santa and Mrs. Claus and have fun

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There is a whole industry dedicated to Christmas lingerie. Role playing is a must, with one of you being naughty and the other even naughtier.  In case you didn’t already know, just the color red gets us horny.

 

 

Use bells during playtime

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This can be really enjoyable. Imagine hearing bells jingling while Santa rides his slay.

 

Make a customized sexy Christmas card

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Make a card with really sexy pictures, or a really dirty letter of what you wish to do to your partner. Just make sure that it is stored in a place where only they can have access to it. Don’t want granny coming and getting a glimpse into your dirty mind.

 

 

Give your partner a sexy pinup calendar featuring you

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Get 12 really sexy pictures of you and create a calendar for the next year. You can even mix it up with photos of you and your honey in suggestive positions.

 

 

Play the Mistletoe game

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Never heard of the mistletoe game? It’s simple, one of you is blindfolded and you throw the mistletoe on your partner’s body. Wherever it lands you must kiss for five seconds. The partner that is enjoying the kiss can move the mistletoe and have fun in the process. Remember to switch after 30 mins.

 

 

Play “Sexmas”

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Christmas time is the time when you visit family, friends and enjoy different types of foods. So here is a game you can play. Sexmas, where you must have sex in every house you visit. How do you do it? That’s totally up to you. The bathroom is always a good spot. But you cannot get caught. If you are, then the game is over.

 

 

Being Disabled and Having Sex Is Not Taboo

Being Disabled and Having Sex Is Not Taboo

Sex and Relationships, Social Issues

15540695269_775f5b63a5_k In the Caribbean, there has been a lot of skepticism when it comes to disabled persons. Some still think that having a disability should affect your sexiness, or worse , your aptness for having sex with someone. It is considered wrong and  people who engage in this act are often stared at with pity or horror.

Very often disabled persons are met these questions, “Can you have sex?”, “Do you have sex?” and “How do you have sex?”, but sexual experiences with a disability has its benefits and can put a positive spin on a relationship. Why? It forces a couple to talk, it causes persons to become in tune with their bodies and not only rely on penetration for pleasure (more foreplay). You and your partner get to redefine sexual norms. For example, altering their ideology of what “sexually appealing” is. Couples can develop stimulation through words, thoughts, and touches. This forces persons to move away from all the scenarios that they think are sexy, and  create that sexual experience within that moment, no matter how awkward or different it is.3711073454_6d165d824b_b

Lastly, sex education for disabled teenagers and adults is needed urgently. Schools must jump on board as well as parents, in order to prepare their children for life ahead. In retrospect, the more sexually active disabled people there are in popular culture, the more the negative perceptions of disabled people will change.

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Rules for Having A Threesome

Rules for Having A Threesome

Sex and Relationships, Social Issues

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When considering to have sexual bliss with another person in your relationship, there are many questions that may pop up in your head:

What if your partner starts falling in love with the other person? What if twosome sex gets boring after experiencing the high of a sexual threesome?
What if you finish with the person who is not your partner? What does that say about your relationship?

If you truly want to have a threesome, all your insecurities must be put to rest. So here are some simple rules that you can follow to make things as enjoyable as possible:

1. Don’t pick a friend (Because they won’t be your friend by the end of the year)

2. No Romantic feelings involved (Don’t pick someone who you had or have hidden feelings for)

3. Pick someone together, and build intimacy.

4. Focus on your partner during the event.

5. Bring Alcohol into the equation to get rid of nerves.

6. Stop everything if someone has to leave the room.

7. Don’t be selfish (It’s not about you only)

8. Finish with your partner.

9. The person does not sleep over after everything is done.

10. After a great night of fun, limit communication with the third person. Opposite sexes don’t communicate.

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Sex Robots To Be Among Us In 2017 [Video]

Sex Robots To Be Among Us In 2017 [Video]

Sex and Relationships, Tech

the-founder-of-realdoll-eventually-wants-people-to-fall-in-love-with-their-sex-robotsRelationships are hard. Sometimes persons have faith that their special someone is out there waiting to cater to their love language. And you are admired for holding on to your dream. But in the meantime, you can have fun with an Abyss Creations product, called the RealDolls(www.realdoll.com).

RealDolls are a new line of realistic sex robots set to be out in 2017. Created with  human-like genitals that have the ability to become warm, synthetic skin with electronic sensors which allows them to respond to touch, a “sexy voice,” that talks back when spoken to, and also the ability to pleasure their owners with specific skills according to sexual orientation and tastes. Priced between  USD$5000 to USD$15,000, consumers will be able to get their hands on these sex robots.

Matt McMullen, the founder, and CEO of Abyss Creations was quoted as saying, “I want to have people actually develop an emotional attachment to not only the robot but the actual character behind it. To develop some kind of love for this being.”

However, the opinions of persons may differ, one thing is quite evident, the world is moving in a direction that enables you to buy love.

The Horniest Countries In The Caribbean

The Horniest Countries In The Caribbean

Sex and Relationships

Sex. One of the most valuable commodities today (Literally). Empires, industries, and philosophies have been driven or controlled by sex. Silently or blatantly, sex rules the world. But what about the Caribbean? Are we sexually charged? Do we do whatever it takes, wherever for sexual pleasure? And what places in the Caribbean crave sex the most? Through extensive research, moans, groans, and experimentation, here are The Ten Horniest Countries in the Caribbean.

10. St Vincent and the Grenadines

3817462332_d3d57f5081_bAlthough we hated to highlight the disgusting act, rape is a characteristic of horniness (Doing whatever it takes to get pleasure.) In a 2007 UN report, St Vincent and the Grenadines was flagged with the third highest number of reported rapes in the world (Wow). Following that, the rate of rapes per 100,000 inhabitants was recorded as 51.21 percent, added to which 48 percent of adolescent girls in the country have reported sexual initiation was forced. For many Vincentian women, sexual harassment is almost a daily occurrence. Wait, not done yet, even the Prime Minister of the country, Dr. Ralph Gonsalves has found himself embroiled in a phone sex scandal. The country battles with incestuous activity, transactional sex (Sex for goods or money), serial and concurrent sexual partners.

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9.Trinidad and Tobago

10795335963_34415deae2_kFourth in the world when it comes to the sex toy industry, Trinidad and Tobago ranks number nine on our list. Pornographic videos made and distributed in secondary schools, still ranks amongst the top countries. With online Pornographic content (Mia Khalifa being a favourite), sex trafficking (supplying and filling demand), and sex tourism very prevalent in the sister island of Tobago, they got to be mentioned as one of the horniest places in the Caribbean.

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8. Guyana

6013633283_fa322c07e3_bNow unto a place where sex created a prosperous industry. In spite of the fact that Prostitution is illegal in this country, a study conducted about Guyana, found that there was a healthy clientele for this business. The clientele is varied, including “businessmen, magistrates, lawyers, politicians, officials of the regional authorities, rich young men, and get this, proprietors of the numerous Chinese restaurants in the city (Gong Bao Chicken,  with sex on the side, anyone?). The industry is separated into three parts uptown (For the rich), downtown (more working class clientele, schoolboys), and Gold mining sites where women and adolescents from Maroon and Amerindian villages service the demand. Also because of the growing demand, sex trafficking has become out of control. In a case against two women charged in 2006, for forcing a 12 year old girl into sexual slavery, the matter was dismissed for lack of evidence.

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7. Bahamas

8404235723_20366f7297_bA country where the reported number of rapes is almost 15 times higher than most countries. There has been an uprise in sexual assaults especially with Jet Ski operators who go through no background checks before they begin to make their living. But the Bahamas makes the list not just for rape, but for one other reason. Sex tour services. A highly organized, professional tour service that provides men (and couples) with an opportunity to have all their sexual desires satisfied. Some businesses are even associated with major international travel agencies. Going in groups allows patrons to party with gorgeous women. If you sign up for a tour as an individual, you will be placed in a villa with up to three other like-minded guests. The idea is to meet other guests like yourself, sharing and changing women on a daily basis. Packages in the country include Two girls for one night, VIP 2 Night Getaway Package, Couples “Threesome” Package where you are in the company of a female companion (bi-sexual) of your choice for 4 days / 3 nights, caring for your every need for your entire stay. In addition, you can do private groups for (friends/business associates) with a customized package, dates, length of stay, size of group and number of companions. These tours are done on private islands in the country. 

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6. Suriname

4119959414_49812699fa_oGold and sex go hand in hand. The Surinamese sex industry is booming especially from high gold prices. The demand for sex is astronomical and the gold industry attracts both local and foreign women, who are looking to earned money fast. Just think, there are thousands of workers ready to part with their blood, sweat, and tears for sex. The sex demand grows every month with BraziliansDominicans, Guyanese and French sex workers coming to the country. Prostitutes make as much as two grams of gold for just twenty minutes of ‘pleasure’ and five grams of gold for the entire evening. A Sex worker can earn US$ 2,000 especially if they get Dry sex. (a sexual practice of having intercourse without vaginal lubrication. It is said to increase vaginal tightness, and enhanced sexual pleasure for the male partner.)

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5. Dominican Republic

427384355_afd65a7b63_oFirstly, prostitution in the Dominican Republic is legal (Well kind of. Depending on how Police officers feel on that day). Driven by the demand from foreign tourists, Dominican expatriates coming back home, and local people, Prostitution is in full flow in the country. Prostitutes/strippers facilitate requests from strip clubs or make their own out-calls. If you’re looking for high-class discrete escorts, your best chance is to try Punta Cana and Santo Domingo. Sex tourism is prevalent in the Puerto Plata province, so you may be hassled by young men or women trying to offer their services. There are a number of resorts that cater to (male) tourists where female companionship is offered, along with a pool, beach bar, and other amenities.

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4. Bonaire

3723485622_19c140607f_bNow onto the second dutch island where horniest is celebrated and regulated. The sex industry is booming here and is arguably considered one of the safer than other Caribbean locales. This is one of the prime locations for sex tourism being known for the famed brothel Pachi. Feeding your sexual desires are as easy as hiring a cabbie to take you to a few places under the radar. A great indicator that this practice is widely sought after. Another place, in particular, is a bar with a few rooms not far from Lisa’s Gas Station. Ask the Cab drivers, they will know.

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3. St. Maarten

3041625275_53b8478c88_bKnown to be notoriously liberal, and a pioneer in legalizing prostitution, St. Maarten joins our list at number three. With the industry on the rise, there are a number of establishments set up to serve the thousands of clients that come to the island for pleasure. Brothels must purchase a permit and supply affidavits on their employees, who must submit a monthly medical checkup. El Capitan, formerly known as Seaman’s Club in Philipsburg followed by Defiance Haven, the former dorms of the American University School, and Sunset Retreat (Yellow Building) and Casablanca (White House) by Oyster Pond.

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2. Curacao

12234162495_e7afa7e021_oAt number two, Curacao. Firstly prostitution is legal (Seems like the “in thing” at this point). The country grants a three-month prostitution visa to women/men who wish to work in the sex trade. Women must register as prostitutes with the Vice and Morals Police Department and submit themselves to weekly STD and health checkups. A large open-air brothel called “Le Mirage” or “Campo Alegre” operates near the airport since the 1940s. Curaçao monitors, contains and regulates the industry. The government states that the workers in these establishments must have a safe environment and access to medical services. There are at least 500 foreign women reportedly in prostitution on the island with clients preferring a person of a lighter complexion as oppose to the Afro-Caribbean population of Curaçao, who are considered less desirable by the tourist. The “Happy Camp” does attract some tourists as well as locals, and even welcomes women and couples on Tuesday nights.

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1. Jamaica

326604427_6c7a2ec164_bAnd taking the number one spot, a lot of persons must have figured it out by now, is Jamaica. One of the premier places where Hedonism is promoted, and inspiring the movie and book, “How Stella Got Her Groove Back” shedding light on the issue of female sex tourism in the Caribbean. Jamaica is known for “pom pom”. Some women (Sugar mamas) travel to the islands with the intention of seeking out a holiday fling with a “beach boy,” and local men are more than willing to accommodate them in exchange for gifts or money. Also, the Negril resort was once known as an “anything goes resort” . Guests are encouraged to get wet, naked and wild. Toga parties, nude weddings, and swim-up nude bars are all in play in the land of Reggae. The Hedonism resorts sell day and night passes to adventurous non-guests. Transactional sex is also quite present with women and sometimes underage girls engaging in activities with older men, aka “Sugar Daddies”, where sex is exchanged by the girl for economic benefit, “Chapses”. 

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